I have been trying to blame other things such as adapting to fatherhood and work and financial stresses but ultimately I think it's my sexuality that is the key thing getting to me. Over the last couple of years I have become depressed and unhappy in my marriage. Over that whole time I have mostly hidden my feelings because of the stigma and attitudes toward gay men. I am 31 and been married 5 years and have two children but have been attracted to males since I was 11 years old. I have been burying my head in the sand for a long time and hoping the problem will go away but here goes. This is very hard for me to share but I need to do it.